I'm pretty sure that I've mentioned Mr. Nurse before in a post from last week, well maybe I didn't name him in my previous post. So here's the scoop I've been talking on and off with Mr. Nurse for a few weeks now. He's super busy schedule which never seems to match up right with mine, usually meant we played message tag and never really had full on conversation. The other night he took the plunge and asked me out to coffee on thursday. I've been avoiding make a full commitment to the coffee date. Something about him, just doesn't do it for me. Some of you are going to tell me that I am crazy when I start actually describing him. So Mr. Nurse is graduating from Yale and works At Yale New Haven Hospital for those of you who don't know what that is it's an Ivy league school/ teaching program with a nurse degree. (WOW Factor) He's super athletic and loves to go hiking and take outdoor trips. He's extremely nice and hard working and ambitious. All of which are categories that end up on my checklist. But even though he passes with high marks something about him, just doesn't give me butterflies, or even make me excited to go for coffee.
I don't know what it is that turns me off, it could be because he's on the shorter side. Well he's my height(midget sized) which by my dating standards too short. I have a thing guys that are tall/ well at least taller than me. He also doesn't have the ability to grow a beard, which is a must. I am such a sap for good facial hair. This all sounds so vapid and superficial when I start listing. I also don't feel the connection. I don't wait for a message, or really feel the need to answer right away. It all just feels like I should just say no and not have to have the awkward this isn't going to work out conversation. Because whats worse than an awkward first date, having to explain that you thought the first date was awkward while they thought it was normal.
So my question is Coffee or No Coffee?
Someone make a decision for me or I'm flipping a coin....
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